Lessons in unsolicited negative advise

Today, I learn something about unsolicited negative advise. No one wants it, we dont like hearing it. If one needs to feel big by making others feel small, then maybe that is the reason why people like these repel success?

Every time negativity is offered, it dampers confidence. We dont realize it because it cannot be seen. Yet it is there. For people who are confident in themselves and their business, these "noise" is just noise. To those who are not so confident, their will might wither and die.

We make many choices every day. Doing the right thing is essential. Giving positive energy, creating value, connecting with the heart, manifesting the best version of ourselves with authenticity and integrity to responsibly enrich others, sounds really easy but is a gargantuan task.

Selfish people need to learn how to be selfless, selfless people need to look after themselves. Balance is crucial. The more I look at exchanges, the more I realize that a good number of people are unhappy where they are.

Entrepreneurship is a long and difficult road, similar to climbing to the very top of a corporate organisation. There are values we have to uphold and practices we have to put in place. Without it, any individual will eventually wither and die. The beauty of life is that we can achieve all we want to achieve, as long as we want it, and are determined to go get it - authentically, responsibly, with integrity to bring more value to enrich others, and eventually, we'd enrich ourselves.

If we are not getting what we want in life, it is because:

1. We are unsure of what we want. This has to be specific and strongly embedded in our being.

2. We're not taking action in the correct direction.

3. We do not believe we deserve it nor are we dedicated to our own personal growth to ensure we sustain it.

4. We're surrounding ourselves and taking advise from the wrong people - people who want to make a quick buck from us instead of wanting to help us, people who prefer us not to succeed and people who has failed in the path before us. Best look for better friends and mentors :)

5. We are not putting in the necessary rituals to ensure mastery and continuous improvement.

6. When it gets hard, we quit.

If I were to put it another way around, to get all that we want in life is to simply

1. Decide what we want, very specifically and keep working at it till we get it.

2. Learn, unlearn, relearn - keep taking action in the correct direction.

3. Believe in ourselves. Grow till we can sustain it.

4. Surround ourselves with valuable people. Take advise from people who are truly successful.

5. Put in the necessary rituals to ensure mastery and always continuously improve.

6. When it gets hard, because it always will, keep going till we achieve.

I hope this post inspires you. You're awesome and amazing. Keep being awesome. <3